Conflict Bondage Breaker3👊💥Lord, Why does any of your children, esp believers in Christ, experience being emotionally abused or bullied? Coz they allowed & accepted it? And His answer Blew me Away… “Child, when U mixed up Human Honey with Christian Testimony! “👊💥Wow😪That Finally made sense!!This broke years of bondage for me💥Using your self effort to endure & be kind to people who did not really appreciate U and instead took U for granted. U endured all their disrespectful & dishonoring ways. Even giving excuses for their ways. Even sometimes Blaming yourself for not being understanding enough. 👊So U endured , to bear, forbear & accept all of these , in the name of being a Good Christian Testimony!
👊Warrior, Wisely Discern between Human Honey vs Christian Testimony💥
Yes. We want to be God’s shining good Christian in this persistent conflict. As U may have even been the person who brought them to Christ. Who ministered to them. Those of U who have experienced it , will know what I am talking about. The scenarios & circumstances may be different in your different work & family lives.💥But In most matters, we may have needed to firmly NOT accept certain disrespectful treatment. Yet we did.
Coz thinking we have to be a Good Christian Testimony. Even when U may have felt like dying in the process ! Absorbing all the wrong they did to U. Warrior, God does not wish that U die before your time, suffering for His sake in this manner.
I Traced All Forms of Abuse to One SAME EVIL ROOT- Disrespect👊
Why subordinates can’t work with their superiors?
Why some domestic helpers can’t submit to their employers after awhile?
Why spouses can’t relate after awhile?
Why colleagues can’t work well with each other?
Why children can’t listen to their parents ?
Why Why Any Human just can’t relate Well after awhile ?
From the Mildest to the most serious Form of Abuse…all gives toxic emotions to your body in varying degrees . Leaves U helpless, confused and many times even in condemnation of 👿why U can’t endure? U Are A Christian aren’t U?😳
But alas, Even Christian’s are Human. U may even be a Pastor, a Leader… That’s why we acknowledged we needed Jesus . 👊
👊I Asked Lord… Why did this happen?God Revealed A Deeper Root To Disrespect: when U think U are Better Than That someone else👊
👊That’s Pride: When U think & Believe U Know Better, U can Think better, U are Smarter than that person .There Starts the decline of the relationship & it goes downhill!
💥Bible says 1 Cor 8:1 Knowledge puffs one up. Indeed. The More we Know… the more humble we must get. Not more Proud.
Like a subordinate that can’t respect the superior.. coz she started to see some of her flaws.
She decided along the way, subconsciously, that this superior is not worthy of his/ her respect. And started to not submit or follow instructions . To start answering back rudely . Point is… U follow instructions coz U honor (submit) to whoever U work for. 💥The day U can’t Submit to your employer… even after trying to change your mindset …may mean its time to choose to leave to another job that brings U peace & joy.
👊Like a spouse that can’t respect each other … Root: They felt that the negative actions of the spouse towards them is “intentional”. That they could have changed ,but simply did not. This sparks the start of great distrust later.
👊In my opinion, Any Abuse, like even in schools, is Actually a form of Bullying .
So What’s the Actual Root to Abuse/Bullying? Disrespect 👊
💥God’s Solution to Abuse/ Bullying?RESPECT .
💥I Always believe, Even when U See a person with his flaws… U have to respect and work with them. 💥God Says Esteem the other better than yourself. 👊They have facets of them that are better .
💥How to show God’s Love to someone? It’s when U know all Their “shit & dung ways” ( in world’s crude layman language ) & U still accept & give them a chance. …after Chance.
💥Jesus Says forgive your offenders. Indeed.. as some may not be even aware that they were manipulative of U.
💥After All is Said & Done… the Only way to Live Harmoniusly …
Is God’s Way… 💥Esteem Others Better Than Yourself!👊
💥Phil 2:3 When you do things, do not let ·selfishness [rivalry; selfish ambition] or pride be your guide. Instead, be humble and give more ·honor [regard; value] to others than to yourselves. EXB Translation.
Final Tomorrow to Round Off this Conflict Bondage Breaker Series👊 It’s gonna set some more captives Free 😉
Praying & Rooting for My Warrior Siblings – UUU💃🏽🕺🏻💃🏽🕺🏻👊💥💥Rotimannagirl@IrisKuek